Lessons Learned

**quote courtesy of Ghandi 

Happy Sunday!

As I sit here and reflect on my past week, I have realized a few important lessons. 

First, we have to be honest enough with ourselves to recognize an unhealthy situation and brave enough to walk away. It doesn't matter if it is an abusive relationship, job, or social group. Life is too fragile and fleeting to waste precious time being trapped in a prison of pain. We may have to plan our escape for safety reasons, but our departure is necessary and needs to happen as quickly as possible. There is a huge difference between having a bad day every now and then and being constantly unappreciated and undervalued. Know the difference and know your worth.

Second, we have to truly believe in our abilities. We know what personal and professional moves we want and need to make to truly feel fulfilled. We may not be able to move as fast as we like, but we should keep moving. People will doubt you, people will judge you, but what do YOU say about you?

Third, the world needs more love. Period. We can't afford to turn a blind eye to things happening in our local, national, and global communities because if we do, then hate and fear will spread and multiply. The world is falling apart and our children, nieces, nephews, and their generation will suffer because of it. Reach out to someone and say hello with a smile. If they don't do it back, that's their loss. You tried! Pay for the person's food behind you at the grocery store. When someone helps you, genuinely thank them. Encourage others, spread love, and seek all things positive in the world. 

Have a great week!

-T. Amour