Mya Releases a New Video for "Mr. Incredible"

 Mya has always been one of my favorite R&B singers. She was featured in a previous post (5 Female Artist You Need On Your Ipod) and I have been a dedicated fan since her debut album in 1998.

Her 2012 album, K.I.S.S., was largely underrated and stays in my rotation. She finally released a retro-inspired visual for my favorite song on the album, "Mr. Incredible". Could this mean there is a 2013 album on the horizon??

Check it out here and let me know YOUR thoughts on the video:

-T. Amour

Jhene Aiko's "Wrap Me Up"

Happy Friday!

Here's the latest joint from Jhene Aiko. As usual, she combines her smooth, soothing vocals over a unique beat. Jhené brings male vocalist James Fauntelroy along for the ride on this sweet, serene journey.

Check it out here!!

This is a perfect song for the winter season! Her debut album, Souled Out, is due in early 2013.


-T. Amour

Merry Christmas!!!

T. Amour wishes each and every one of you a very Merry Christmas!!

Enjoy your family, friends, life, and this tune by TLC!! New blog posts coming up this week!!

With Love,

-T. Amour

5 Songs to Get You In the Mood for Christmas

Hi everyone and Merry Christmas Eve to those who celebrate!

If you are anything like me, the Christmas spirit doesn't hit you until the last minute (like when you wake up on Christmas Day). For me, once I graduated and no longer had Christmas breaks or parties to look forward to, the season lost its luster in my eyes.

Sometimes, life sucks. Many of us find ourselves missing loved ones during this time or year. Or, maybe we are depressed because we can't afford to get as many presents for our family and friends as we would like. Instead of focusing on what we lack, let's make a deal this year to appreciate all we do have and the people that are around us right now. Deal? I am sure your presence is worth more than presents to those who love and care about you.

Now, here are 5 songs to get you in the mood for Christmas. As always, there are many more but these songs are a great start!

And, for those who are celebrating Kwanzaa this week, Happy Kwanzaa!

1) Donny Hathaway - "This Christmas"

Many have tried, but no one has been able to sing this song like Donny.

2) Mariah Carey - "All I Want for Christmas"

Bring on the ridiculously happy feelings...

3) The Temptations - "Silent Night"

There is no Christmas without this song. Point. Blank. Period.

4) Kenny G - "Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas"

Great instrumental!

5) Run DMC "Christmas in Hollis"

For all the classic hip-hop fans out here, this is a 1987 classic.

What are some of your favorite Christmas tunes? Comment below!

With Love,

-T. Amour

Trey Songz: The Chapter V Tour Charlotte NC

Happy Sunday!

I attended the Chapter V tour on Friday, December 14th in Charlotte, NC. As a fan since his 2005 debut (freshman year of college...good times), I have been to several shows and watched him grow as an artist and performer. I blog about Trey often ( See Chapter V review and 5 Great Songs by Songz) and wanted to do VIP, but couldn't due to recent events.

Like the album, the Chapter V tour was a grand experience. Since his Anticipation 2our, he has added backup dancers, singers, and sax/trumpet player to elevate his performances to another level. Trey brought R&B crooner Miguel and rising soul singer Elle Varner on board to prove that the essence of R&B still exists.

Here is a breakdown of what happened at the concert. For those who have not attended yet and plan to, I will try not to give away too many details.

Elle Varner - The show started immediately with Elle Varner. Elle looked and sounded ABSOLUTELY wonderful! I love how she has an old-school tinge to her voice, yet her music is heavily embedded with hip-hop undertones. To my chagrin, she only performed about a couple of songs, including her hits "Only Wanna Give It to You" and "Refill". However, she did a rousing version of my favorite single on Perfectly Imperfect   entitled "Not Tonight". Great band and a pretty kick-ass dude beatboxing.

Miguel - This was only my 2nd time seeing Miguel in concert. The last time was in December 2010 when he was an opening act for Usher during his wildly successful OMG tour. Of course, Trey Songz was also in the building. He was a new artist with only one single and an underrated album under his belt. I was familiar with the songs and enjoyed his performance, but he was largely overlooked by most of the audience. On this tour, Miguel brought his A++ game. All decked out in a fly leather jacket and slim dress pants, he put on one hell of a show, performing his smash hit "Adorn" as well as a couple of songs from his latest CD Kaleidoscope Dreams. The highlight of his set was when he took a moment to acknowledge the horrific tragedy that took place earlier in the day. Miguel poured his heart into singing "Candles in the Sun" as a tribute to the Sandy Hook victims. I cried :(

Trey Songz- Trey was Trey. His set started off with a musical timeline reflecting on his biggest hits. As all the fans reminsced and anxiously awaited his arrival, Chapter V logos flashed across the screen. Once Trey emerged, the energy and excitement was non-stop. The concert participant was pulled through a bevy of emotions as Trey Songz took us to the club, bedroom, and the joys and pains of love. Recently, he has been struggling with sickness, yet it was barely evident as his gave his all on stage. I have three personal favorite moments:

1) "One Love" - Trey performed this song in honor of the fallen victims from Sandy Hook Elementary School. His pure emotion touched everyone present and many were hugging and in tears. Beautiful song, beautiful vocals, and a beautiful moment I will never forget.

2) "Fumble" - I love this song in ways I cannot begin to describe. I recorded this song until my camera met its demise. Since so many arms and cell phones were in my way (I'm 5'3), I turned to the jumbo screen. Forgive my shaky camera work, I was just as excited as the people around me lol

3) The girl with the halo - Before Trey came on stage, I noticed a girl in the upper level section with all white on and a halo. She was so cute and appeared to be young, but she was no doubt a Trey's Angel. At the end of all his shows, he always brings the house lights up and recognizes a few people in the crowd. He glanced over at her section and shouted her out. To her surprise, he asked her to come on stage. Once she arrived, he gave her a Chapter V gold necklace, a kiss on the cheek, and hugged her as the crowd cheered her on. I later saw her in the hallway with her friends and a HUGE smile on her face.

The tour was great!! Can't wait until next time...maybe I will be on tour with Trey as a writer/blogger to capture his city-to-city experiences :) We can all dream, right??

-T. Amour

Classic Poetry

I love this excerpt of John Donne's "The Bait". Donne was a poet and satirist who lived many, many moons ago (late 1500s-early 1600s). The whole poem is beautiful, but this is my favorite stanza.

For any movie lovers out there who recognize it, this excerpt was recited in the 1994 film Jason's Lyric.

"Come live with me, and be my love,
And we will some new pleasures prove
Of golden sands and crystal brooks,
With silken lines and silver hooks."

I hope your Tuesday was terrific.

-T. Amour

SHE DID THAT! Tamar Braxton's "Love and War"

The day has finally come! The youngest of the Braxton clan, Tamar, has released her long-awaited single, "Love and War" and I am loving it!

For those who don't know her, she is the flamboyant sister of Toni Braxton, who was one of the hugest stars of the 90s. She released a debut album entitled Tamar in 2000 to little fanfare (although it is an excellent album). Her recent rise to fame came on the reality show, Braxton Family Values, and her position as an instant fan fave led to her own show, Tamar & Vince, alongside her husband Vincent Herbert (a record producer and songwriter who brought Lady Gaga to fame).

With this single, Tamar proves she is her own artist and a new formidable force in the R&B world.

Check it out!

Love ya Tamar!

-T. Amour

Jhené Aiko's Releases New Video for "Mirrors"

Jhené Aiko (whom you all know is a favorite of mine) released a stellar visual for her song "Mirrors". As usual, Ms. Aiko brings an incredible level of depth and artistry to this song!

I cannot wait to see what 2013 has in store for her!

*All rights reserved to the owner of this video*

I hope your Wednesday was wonderful.

-T. Amour

Happy Birthday Jay-Z

Today is Jay-Z's 43rd birthday! Jay-Z (born Shawn Carter) is one of the true legends in the rap game with more than 10 successful albums under his belt, iconic songs, a net worth of nearly $500 million, and a beautiful wife named Beyonce.



Jay-Z is an incredible rapper, entrepreneur, and record producer who has inspired many of today's artists to pick up a mic and drop bars. 16 years after his solo debut, the classic Reasonable Doubt, Jay-Z is still a prominent force in rap culture and his career truly proves that there are NO limits to success!

One of my favorite Jay-Z albums is The Black Album (2003). I was 16 years old and this was the first CD I played in the whip when my mom finally gave me her 1998 Mitsubishi Eclipse. Every time I hear a track from this album, a good memory comes to mind.

Cheers to you Shawn Carter! Check out a clip of "Public Service Announcement" from The Black Album

Happy Birthday Jay,

-T. Amour

Solange Knowles: A TRUE Artist

On November 27th, the incredibly talented (and underrated) Solange Knowles released her latest collection of music. The 7-track EP, True, is a follow up to her funky and soulful previous album "Sol-Angel and the Hadley Street Dreams". On True, Solange continues her journey as an artist with a musical palate that sharply contrasts her wildly famous sister's style.

Solange is, in my opinion, one of the best female artists out here. She has the entire package: impeccable individual style, deeply personal and well-crafted songs, and solid, unique production. She is the cool singin', paintin', DJin', and cussin' intellectual chick that girls want to hang out with and guys want to date. Solange is one of the few artists who truly understands that if you want to produce timeless, quality, and cohesive material, then you need to use "tried-and-true" methods. For example, she wrote the entire EP and worked with one producer, Dev Hynes, to produce a seamless sound.

Here is a track by track review:

"Losing You"

This song is the perfect kickoff to the EP. "Losing You" is odd, yet pleasant gumbo of pop and R&B with a dash of house music influence. Although Solange's airy vocals lament a fading love, the upbeat and percussion heavy tempo is uplifting and provides a perfect match to Solange's carefree and unique persona.

"Some Things Never Seem to Fucking Work"

Could this song be an ode to her widely publicized teenage romance (and first marriage) to college football player Daniel Smith? Perhaps so. At any rate, we have all went through that necessary shift from agonizing heartbreak to lingering anger over a love gone wrong. Despite her foul language and angry lyrics, Solange's vocals are flawlessly smooth over the simple production.

"Locked in Closets"

 Solange serves up yet another potential hit with this track. The vocals are the defining feature of the song: effortless and solid without unnecessary melismas. Keep it on repeat!

"Lovers In the Parking Lot"

The second upcoming single from True, "Lovers In the Parking Lot" is a standout track on this EP. Backed by a hypnotic beat, Solange reassesses the pitfalls of toying with another person's emotions. Dev Hynes and Solange are a match made in musical heaven.

"Don't Let Me Down"

Once again, Solange tackles the pitfalls of love over addictive music. She proclaims her love for her man and expects his affection in return with church-tinged vocals. The production pulsates with a guitar influence. This song shows Solange at her most vulnerable moment on the EP.

"Looks Good With Trouble"

I don't know why this song/interlude is so short, but I need more. Much more. This small sample of sexy is an unfair tease and proves that this Knowles sister is a vixen in her own right.

"Bad Girls"

Best song on the album. Lyrically, vocally, and production wise. Solange spreads her wings with sweet vocal runs as she finds herself in a strange bed after the previous night's bad decisions. 

Overall, congrats on a fantastic EP void of filler and full of intoxicating music!

Love Solange,

-T. Amour

The Most Interesting Rappers Out Right Now Pt. 2

I'm back with the second post about the most interesting rappers out RIGHT NOW!! As noted, these are current rappers who are active in the rap arena. And, these lists are in no way exhaustive! There is a plethora of talent, both signed and unsigned.

Check out my first post here to get a feel on how I view the rap music: The Most Interesting Rappers Out Right Now Pt. 1

Here is Part 2

1) Rapsody
 
Remember the incredibly talented Kendrick Lamar from the previous post? Well, let me introduce you to his female counterpart. Hailing from North Carolina, Rapsody is poised to be a future forerunner in rap music and, after sampling just one track, you will know why. Her socially conscious lyrics and unwavering effort to preserve the essence of rap is reminiscent of Lauryn Hill and Queen Latifah. Her image is quintessential B-girl. And her motto is simple, yet poignant: "Culture Over Everything". Pick up a copy of her latest effort, The Idea of Beautiful.

**Must hear tracks: "The Drums" , "Kind of Love", "All Black Everything", and "In The Town"

2) Ab-Soul
 
Yet another member of the Black Hippy supergroup is on my list. Along with Kendrick Lamar and ScHoolBoy Q, Ab-Soul is West Coast rapper with unlimited talent. Ab-Soul was ostracized as a child due to a rare skin disease, but instead of allowing adversity to derail him from his dreams, he began actively pursuing a career in rap music, eventually signing with Top Dawg Entertainment in 2007. The 25 year old wordsmith is the heartbeat of his group and often displays his keen awareness of politics and social issues on his tracks. His latest body of work, Control System, is a must-have for any hip-hop fan and features vocals from his late girlfriend Alohi Joh, who sadly died from an apparent suicide earlier this year.

**Must hear tracks: "A Rebellion", "ILLuminate", "Nothing New", and "Terrorist Threats"

3) B.o.B.

As you can tell, I am not a huge mainstream rap fan, but B.o.B. has had my attention for the past couple of years. Born Bobby Ray Simmons, Jr. in North Carolina (we generally breed good people here), and raised in Decatur, GA, Simmons began playing several instruments as a child, including the trumpet and his now-famous guitar. A 2006 performance at T.I.'s Club Crucial soon led to a deal with Atlantic Records. Like most recent artists, his climb to fame started on the mixtape circuit in 2007 and 2008. His breakthrough freshman album, B.o.B. Presents the Adventures of Bobby Ray, took 2010 by storm. Several hits were spawned, including the inescapable "Nothing On You" featuring Bruno Mars. B.o.B. represents the lighthearted side of hip-hop as he effortlessly blends genres and generations of fans. If you think he's too mainstream, check out his recent mixtape F*ck Em We Ball and change your mind.

**Must hear tracks: "Nothin' On You", "Hell of a Night", "Out of My Mind", and "Arena"

4) Jay Rock

Don't judge me. Yes, I do have all 4 members of the Black Hippy movement on my lists. Jay Rock was, of course, a mixtape artist and caught the attention of Top Dawg Entertainment. In 2008, his debut single, "All My Life" was largely praised by the rap community and Jay Rock quickly earned a spot on several hip-hop "up and coming artist" lists. In 2011, his highly anticipated and well-received debut album, Follow Me Home, was released and solidified his presence as narrator and exceptional lyricist.

**Must hear tracks: "Hood Gone Love It", "Say Whassup", "All My Life", and "Kill or Be Killed"

5) Childish Gambino

Childish Gambino's road to rap success mirrors the ever present rapper Drake. An actor turned rapper, Gambino took the leap from TV to hip-hop and created an independent release in 2008 entitiled Sick Boi. His rap persona is all over the place: self-deprecating, humorous, braggadocios, introspective, and all around unique. For Childish Gambino, the genre box simply doesn't exist. He makes music on his own terms and plays by his own rules. Check out Royalty, his latest mixtape released on Independence Day of 2012.

**Must hear tracks: "Fire Fly", "Heartbeat", "Freaks and Geeks", and "UNtouchable"

Could there be a part 3???? Stay tuned and you will find out....

With Love,

T. Amour

Thanksgiving: The Good, Bad, and Ugly - Be Thankful Anyway

Depending on who you are, Thanksgiving can stir a multitude of emotions. For some of us, we can picture and taste our Grandma's savory sweet potato pie. For others, it brings back bad memories of awkward family conversations or disagreements.

Personally, I have mixed emotions about Thanksgiving. I strive to be thankful everyday, even when things don't go my way. I could also get into the whole Pilgrims/Native Americans thing, but that is another post and I won't go there!

I have a list of my blessings that I refer to at least 3 times a week to remind me that my life, although it is not perfect, is filled with small joys. I have a husband, a healthy daughter, healthy nieces and nephews, a roof over my head, and yes, even my day job (because having a source of income rocks). I am also thankful for music and poetry :)

I also have this blog. And I have each and every one of you who takes just a few minutes to read my blog and support me as I chase my dreams of becoming a successful blogger, writer, and business owner. Even if you don't agree with the orgins behind this holiday, grab some Chinese, sit down on the floor and write out a list of what makes your life worth living. I promise, it is longer than you think!

From me to you, have a joyous Thursday filled with light, love, prosperity, laughter, smiles, and purpose!

Since I have until Monday off work, I can FINALLY finish a couple of blog posts that I have been wanting to share with you.

Here's a old-school song to put you in a thankful mindset: William DeVaughn "Be Thankful for What You Got"

With Love,

T. Amour

Words of Wisdom

Just a few thoughts to keep in mind this week! I look forward to bringing you Part 2 of my "Most Interesting Rappers" post (See part one here) soon.

**Attitude defines reality - If you remain positive, then positive things will manifest in your life!

**Trials build character - Successful people CAN'T be weak. Your current struggle will prepare you for the continuous uphill battle toward personal success.

**Square pegs don't fit into circles - Don't try to force things to work that simply don't work. And don't try to fit into a circle you don't belong in. Individuality is sexy.

**Silence is golden - Our world moves at an alarming rate. Take time to slow down for a minute and savor life.

**Beautiful Surroundings - You have no control over other people's personalities, opinions, and actions. But you can control who you let into your space. Life is too short to surround yourself with ignorant people.

I hope you have a beautiful week!

Love Light and Live Life!

-T. Amour

The Most Interesting Rappers Out Right Now Pt. 1

Rap/Hip-hop is one of the most versatile and dominant forms of music. Inside the paradigm of rap lies a myriad of subject matter, rhyming techniques and varying terminology. The roots of hip-hop run deep into history, reflecting African storytellers who recited tales to the fluid beat of drums. Many generations have been heavily influenced by the world of hip-hop music, and it is now arguably the most dominate genre of music on the planet.

But, despite its rich heritage, the majority of today's mainstream rap has been castigated for its misogynist lyrics and promotion of irresponsible and illegal behavior. Even former staunch supporters of rap music have declared that "Hip-hop is dead" as the topics have become largely repetitive and the lyricism has been reduced to mindless chants and kindergarten rhymes.

However, I have unshakeable faith in this genre of music. I don't buy into the propaganda that rap music is dying. Like I have said many times on this blog, quality music exists, you just have to be diligent enough to explore the many possibilities! I rarely listen to the radio because I have no interest in hearing the same songs 20 times a day.

My love for rap is thriving primarily to these 5 artists listed below, among others. Right now, they are reigning supreme on my personal playlist and they prove that the masterful lyricism, storytelling, and intelligence in rap music is ALIVE.

Here is the first lineup of The Most Interesting Rappers Out RIGHT NOW (no particular order):

1) Kendrick Lamar


 Kendrick Lamar is a rap genius. This Compton-based lyricist began his rap career as a mixtape artist nearly 10 years ago with his first mixtape in 2003 while he was still a teenager. His album on the independent label Top Dawg Entertainment, Section 80, was critically acclaimed and proved that he would be a formidable force in rap music. Now, with the recent release of his major-label debut album, Good Kid, m.A.A.d city, Kendrick proved he has the ability to attract the mainstream audience without losing his authenticity. GKMC is already being heralded as a classic album and reasons are obvious. This album is the definition of superior storytelling, brilliant lyricism, and unprecedented cohesiveness. No need to skip tracks!

**Must hear songs: "Rigamortis", "Sing About Me, I'm Dying of Thirst", "HiiiPower", and  "The Recipe"

2) J. Cole

Shout out to my home state hero! J. Cole hails from humble beginnings in Fayetteville, NC, where he began rapping in high school. After graduation, he decided to take his rapping AND atheletic talents to the Big Apple, where he attended St. John's University under a full basketball scholarship. After graduating college, he began to hone his lyrical talents full-time, releasing his first mixtape. However, it was his second mixtape in 2009, The Warm Up, that truly caught the attention of rap fans. A year later, he was the first artist signed to Roc Nation and its been ON every since. Cole's next two efforts, the flawless mixtape Friday Night Lights and his debut album Cole World: The Sideline Story, cemented his status as one of the sharpest lyricist in the game right now. J. Cole's music spans a plethora of topics and showcases his superior intelligence and clever wordplay.

**Must hear songs: "Too Deep For the Intro", ALL THREE SIMBA TRACKS, "The Autograph", "Lost Ones"

3) Casey Veggies

Unlike Lamar and Cole, Casey Veggies (born Casey Jones) has not yet had his moment to bask in the mainstream glow, but that doesn't mean he isn't a force to be reckoned with. A former member of Odd Future Gang, Casey has decided to forge his own independent path in the music world. He has released 5 mixtapes and finally signed with Roc Nation earlier this year. Casey Veggies is refreshingly creative, decidedly unique, and talented far beyond his years. He can take a "typical" rap subject and present it in an unorthodox way. He will be around for a LONG time!

**Must hear songs: "Ridin' Roun Town", "DTA", "Swag Worth a Mill", "It's All Good" "Nobody"

4)ScHoolboy Q

There's no suprise that I like ScHoolboy Q. He, along with Kendrick Lamar, are members of the West-Coast super group Black Hippy. After releasing two mixtapes, he dropped his independent label debut, Setbacks, in 2011. The album turned out to be anything but a setback for him, and ScHoolboy Q followed up in 2012 with the highly acclaimed Habits&Contradictions. What makes him interesting? It's all about his unique delivery and eclectic style. Similar to his group mate, he is able to rhyme about an endless list of subjects with an incredible level of thought. Every line, every word is deliberate and meaningful.

**Must hear songs: "Fantasy", "I'm Good", "Blessed", "Nightmare on Figg St."

5) Joey BadA$$

Joey BadA$$ is...well...bad ass. In a great way. Although he is only 17, his style is reminiscent of the "golden age" of rap music. Joey's 1999 mixtape is unlike anything I have ever heard in today's era. It's smart, soulful, and astounding. He is a diamond among much of today's trash. I respect him and support him for remaining true to who he is and achieving success and acclaim on his own terms. Think Nas and Jay-Z at the beginning of their careers - the undeniable hunger and dedication to the poetry of rap music. Yet, he is interesting and captivating enough to be relevant among rap fans. Can't wait for his official debut album!

**Must hear songs: "Survival Tactics", "Waves" (this is my ish), "Catharsis", "Righteous Minds"

This list is just the beginning of my current rap catalogue. Part 2 to come your way soon!

Love Hip-Hop,

T. Amour

RIP Natina Reed of Blaque

Yesterday was an awesome and sad day. I got a chance to once again participate in North Carolina A&T's homecoming festivities, including seeing one of my faves (Trey Songz) twice and experiencing the amazing Elle Varner in concert. Although A&T is not my alma mater, I married into an Aggie family, so I am one by default!

However, the Twitter universe quickly spread the sad news of Natina Reed's untimely passing. Natina was a member of  the 90s girl group Blaque. Blaque, an acronym which stands for Believing Life Achieving Quest Unity Everything, was discovered by Lisa "Left Eye" Lopes of TLC, who died in a tragic car accident in 2002.

As a young tween/teen in the late 90s, Blaque was a favorite group of mine. They were like a younger version of TLC, complete with two singers and Reed as the rapper of the group. Blaque's most popular hit, "808", shot up the charts in 1999 and was followed up by "Bring It All to Me". The group also dipped into acting, starring in "Bring It On" with Gabrielle Union in 2000.

I remember buying their self-titled debut and playing it to death with my younger cousin. Natina was my favorite person in the group and I would rap along with her :) No, their music was not groundbreaking nor Earth shattering, but it was fun and lighthearted.

Their music takes me back to a time when women didn't have to strip down and be overtly sexy to get attention. The days before bills, stress, heartbreak, and uncertainty.....good ole childhood.

Natina Reed was hit and killed by a driver on a busy Altanta road this past weekend. Sadly, she would have turned 33 today. Its eerie to note that she, like Left Eye, was not only the rapper in a girl group, but also died at the same age in a motor vehicle accident. 

I hope her son, family, and group members find comfort during this difficult time. Blaque was in the process of reuniting and working on a new album...

RIP and Happy Birthday Natina!

-T. Amour

The Essence of Sade

My world has been spinning at an alarming rate. Each day frantically scampers by me as I focus on my daily routines. The rhythm of life beats so vibrantly, I barely get a chance to partake in the beauty of it all. I need to slow down. Relax. Release some things and some people. And enjoy life because when the curtain closes, you don't get an encore.

My favorite artist to listen to when I need to calm my spirit is Sade. Born Helen Folassade Adu, she is a British jazz singer and a rare jewel in music. Since rising to fame in the 80s with her band, also named Sade, she has become well known as a mysterious, classic beauty with a velvety contralto. To me, Sade is more than a pretty face and voice. She is a soul-soothing therapist.

 She has a legion of loyal fans who hunger for the rare, yet instantly classic, releases of new material, but she is not a celebrity. Sade chooses to be reclusive, only emerging to tour and share her talent with the world. She doesn't need scandals, heavy promotion, or a hyper-sexualized image to validate her talent. It speaks for itself.

Her voice is inimitable and touches the very of heart of a human being. And, she is beautiful, but in a quiet, natural way. If you have never heard her music and/or seen her in concert, you are missing out on an experience. Purchase Sade's Ultimate Collection...now.

Here is a sample of her released signature tracks...enjoy the essence of Sade.

1) "No Ordinary Love" (1992)

2) "The Sweetest Taboo" (1985)

3) "Kiss of Life" (1992)  *she is stunning in this video*

4) "Soldier of Love" (2010)

5) "Smooth Operator" (1992)

6) "Your Love is King" (1984)  *THIS. IS. LIVE.*

Sade, thank you for your iconic music and image.

I love Sade,

-T. Amour

DOPE Artist Alert - Jhené Aiko

Beyonce. Rihanna. Carrie Underwood. Lady Gaga. There is a strong star power connected to each one of these female artists. They are Grammy-award winning, multi-platinum mainstream singers who are world renowned for their talent.

But, when it comes to the vast landscape of female artists, they are not the alpha and omega. Any true lover of music knows that if you look past the artists who get constant airplay and exposure, you will find rare gems whose star shines just as bright, even though you don't typically see their names illuminated.

Jhené Aiko is one of the bright and soulful lights.



What is her story?
Jhené is a singer and was originally associated with the early 2000s R&B boy band B2K.She was featured on several of their albums and a few movie soundtracks, but never got her chance to fully display her talent.  After her debut album was shelved, she returned to school. However, her desire for music never waned, and she made an attempt to return to music. As a beautiful young woman who had "commercial" appeal, record execs wanted to sex up her image and encouraged her to "sell her soul". Instead, she decided to take the reins of her career and be the captain of her destiny, choosing to go the mixtape route to build a fan base.

What are her musical accomplishments?
 In 2011, she released her mixtape, Sailing Soul(s), an ode to her desire to be the master of her musical destiny. Now an adult and a mother, she poured her entire being into the mixtape and before the end of the year, she was a signed artist.

Next up for Aiko is the impending release of her true debut album, Souled Out. 
 
***Remember my post about the five fierce females you need on your Ipod? Yep, this is why she was on my list.***

What differentiates her from the pack?
Subject matter, soul, grit, and sound. If you are looking for her to sell sex, you will be sorely disappointed.  Her lyrics take a deep and painful look at the human psyche and how we processes heartbreak, depression, and the struggle to discover/remain true to ourselves. Its rare for a woman to make music that appeals to both sexes, but Jhené pulls it off flawlessy. She manages to combine her light, airy vocals with unorthodox production and occasional raw language (this girl will curse lol) to bring a refreshing atmosphere to R&B music.

Name 5 songs I need in my collection

1) "Growing Apart Too" (feat. Kendrick Lamar) *check the link from last week's post!*
2) "You Vs. Them"
3) "Do Better Blues"
4) "For My Brother" *this song is in memory of her brother, who sadly passed this year from cancer*
5) "3:16" *Check the video out for the lead single of her upcoming album*

I admire and I am inspired by Ms. Aiko's gift of writing and storytelling. I hope she continues to stay true to who she is and create her own definition of success. Honestly, we should all apply her philosophy to our lives. Instead of letting someone else package us into what they believe the world desires us to be, we need to command our own moves and find our path to success on our own terms. It would be an extreme tragedy to lose our authenticity to gain notoriety.

Love Jhené,

T. Amour

T. Amour's Playlist

Hello everyone!

Well, its been a busy couple of weeks for me, filled with work woes, hospital visits, and enough drama to get my own show on VH1.

But, I'm back, I'm focused, and I'm ready to get back into doing what I love: blogging and writing my novel!

Look out for upcoming posts about Chris Brown, Jhene Aiko, Solange, and a few up and coming artists (!!!) as well as some great poetry.

Here's my current playlist, complete with links! I hope you enjoy!

 ***All rights reserved to respective owners***


1) Jhene Aiko feat. Kendrick Lamar and H.O.P.E.  - "Growing Apart Too"

2) Frank Ocean - "Thinking About You"

3) Nas feat. Amy Winehouse - "Cherry Wine" **this is a serious tune**

4) Solange - "Losing You" **very beautiful video...she is amazing**

5) Elle Varner - "SoundProof Room"

6) Chris Brown - "Don't Judge Me"

7) Bobby Brown - "Don't be Cruel"  **love old-school, hi-top, sanging/rappin/dancing Bobby...a groundbreaking artist for sure**

8) Stevie Nicks - "Edge of Seventeen" **recognize the guitar riff? Yep, Destiny's Child sampled it for Bootylicious**

9) Santana - "Black Magic Woman/Gypsy Queen" **gotta love Carlos Santana**


That's just a sample :) What are you listening to? Any suggestions for me? Let me know in the comment.

Love you,

-T. Amour

This Is Chapter V....Trey Songz Album Review

Exactly one month ago (August 21st), a sexy, soulful singer by the name of Trey Songz (actual name: Tremaine Aldon Neverson)  released his fifth album, aptly titled Chapter V.

Since his meteoric rise in 2009 with his breakthrough album, Ready, many believed his career would never see such heights again. For those who have counted Trey out, think again.

Chapter V skyrocketed up the Billboard charts, scoring Songz his FIRST number one album on the Billboard 200. I had Chapter V in my CD player from day one and I'm still hooked on it. In my opinion, this album is going to take his career to insurmountable heights. Chapter V manages to cover a wide range of emotions and subject matter while still remaining cohesive, due to majority of the production and/or songwriting by Songz, Troy Taylor, and Najja McDowell

Here is a track by track review *Note: I am omitting the interludes.*

"Dive In"
Well, this sounds like familiar territory, doesn't it? True to his signature sound, Trey jumps Chapter V off with this steamy record about gettin' your Michael Phelps on...and I don't mean in the swimming pool ;) ***5 stars***

"Panty Wetter"
**Pause on the title LOL** Just when you thought the guy who invented sex couldn't get any raunchier, he did. The title explains the subject matter, but what you shouldn't miss is the superb production by Troy Taylor, who heads us the majority of Chapter V. ***4 stars***

"Heart Attack"
From the moment I heard this song, I couldn't get it out of my head. Trey's voice flows effortlessy alongside a heavy R&B beat inflected with signs of pop as he curses the dark side of love. He manages a crossover friendly hit without losing his identity and the results are amazing. ***5 stars***

"Playin' Hard"
I can't lie...as soon as I heard Trey start rapping and the bass-heavy beat dropped, I was sold on this song. A rapper turned singer (yes, I wrote it correctly), Trey has been know to be a serious wordsmith on his infamous mixtapes and hearing him flow on an album is a treat, even though Playing Hard has a semi-stalkerish/bitter undertone. For women, it gives us a realistic view of how a man processes a lost love. ***5 stars***

"2 Reasons"
Trey teams up with rapper T.I., the self-proclaimed King of the South and a heartthrob in his own right, for this club friendly banger.  Simply put, these guys only go to the club for two reasons: the "women" (actual word rhymes with witches) and the drinks. Since T.I. and Trey are two of the most intelligent and articulate men in music, people often wonder why they would make a song like 2 Reasons. Here is my explanation:  music is a business and this song is extremely catchy, radio-friendly, and truthful. Men do go to the club and its not for the music.....Is it my favorite Trey song? No. But it's all in the name of fun!  ***4 stars***

"Hail Mary"
According to Trey, this song was the final one added to the album. He even pushed the date back just for this collaboration with rap heavyweights Young Jeezy and Lil' Wayne. And I completely understand why. The three artists blend their individual musical styles seamlessly in the addictive track. Trey uses football terminology to describe what he can (and will) do in the bedroom while Jeezy and Wayne bring their distinctive flows to the forefront to create a great song. ***5 stars***

"Don't Be Scared"
It looks like talent runs in the family. Trey's younger brother, Alex "A-Wall" Neverson, collaborates with longtime producer Troy Taylor to help write and produce one of the best songs on this CD. As usual, Trey is R&B smooth and lyrically gritty as he lures in a woman with lyrics such as "Imma keep it real a lot of women in my phone; but I'ma be for real you the only one I want". I love the line Trey Songz walks between street and sexy.   ***5 stars***

"Pretty Girls Lie"
This song is unique, deep, authentic, and shows a side of Songz that many people to take the time to see. Trey carefully weaves a story about women who have been scarred by life and project their inner pain on unsuspecting victims. His raw and emotional vocals will make you believe that he had encountered a pretty liar or two in his life. ***5 stars***

"Bad Decisions"
Simple yet captivating production by Rico Love provides an excellent backdrop for Trey Songz vocals to take center stage as he laments his philandering ways. Bad Decisions seems to be a rare glimpse into Tremaine Neverson's regrets following "Trigga decisions". In my opinion, this is one of Trey's best songs ever. ***5 stars***

"Forever Yours"
The lyrics are classic Trey: clever and sexy. The production by Norwegian production group Stargate is futuristic and stellar. It's a different sound for Trey Songz, but I'm sure you will have it on repeat. ***4 stars***

"Fumble"
Trey seems to love football analogies. He also seems to get himself into relationship mayhem due to his bad decisions and fumbling of hearts. Typically, there are only so many ways to say "I cheated and I feel stupid for doing it" but Trey takes a fresh spin on the I-did-you-wrong song. And he sounds so good singing it, every woman would be willing to give him a 2nd or 20th chance. He didn't mean it.... ***5 stars***

"Without a Woman"
I love the beginning of this song. Its a vocal tug of war between Trey and Sevyn (former member of short-lived girl group RichGirl) and sets the tone of a melodic ode to the importance of a woman. Without a Woman is reminiscent of old school R&B and has the potential to be a modern day classic. ***5 stars***

"Simply Amazing"
A well known fan of groups like Kings of Leon, Trey steps outside of the R&B world and delivers a sweet ballad toward one lucky lady. To date, this is the largest shift he has made toward the pop realm and he does it effortlessly. Instead of abandoning his signature style, he transfers his soulful sound to this Max Martin production. This song is...well, Simply Amazing.  ***5 stars***

"Never Again"
Never Again has all the elements of a perfect Trey song. Trey's flawless falsetto, a upbeat tempo coupled with heavy bass, and great lyrics. It's easy to forget that this is a breakup song when you hear the music, but Trey is indeed singing about yet another love lost on this standout track. This is my favorite song on the album. ***5 Stars***

"Check Me Out"
Uh oh...I feel a 90s Puff Daddy dance coming on! Now know as Diddy, Trey brings the mogul on to this track along with rapper Meek Mill. This song definitely has Diddy's influence ALL over it and we know he has made quite a few smash hits in his time. ***4 stars***

"Chapter V Outro"
Hey! If you listen to Check Me Out all the way through, you will find the full version of the Intro song. All I have to say about this is: why is it hidden?!?!? Trey went in on this track completely and further cemented his status as one of leading men in entertainment. ***4 stars***

This is Trey Songz best album. It's well rounded and well thought out. As a person who has his mixtapes and albums, I can see his growth as an artist and I look forward to his future endeavors.

If you don't have the album, get it. It's worth it!

Love Songz,

T. Amour

RIP Aaliyah - I Miss You

August 25th, 2001. I was a 14 year old freshman who had just completed my first week of high school. I was at home relaxing and watching videos on MTV (remember when they used to play videos?) when a heartbreaking message was announced. Aaliyah's bright, beautiful light had been extinguished in a fiery plane crash.

My heart sank to the pit of my stomach. At that time, I was crazy about Aaliyah. I thought she was one of the most beautiful people I had ever seen. I had every CD she came out with and I admired her style. I wanted to dress like her and wear my hair down with her infamous "swoop" covering my eye. I tried, but it never looked quite like hers!

To this day, I regret never getting a chance to meet her and tell her how much she inspired me. I often wonder what the female R&B landscape would be like if she were alive today. Would people appreciate her clean and drama-free lifestyle? Would they be interested in her subtle form of sexiness? I hope so. Her maturity and profound insight on life would not have allowed her to experience many of the pitfalls that our young female stars succumb to. 

In just a few short years, Aaliyah managed to inspire an entire generation. And, if I could meet her today, I would tell her thank you for great music, staying classy, and truly being one in a million.

We love you Aaliyah.

- T. Amour

My Thoughts on Gabby Douglas and new music

Like most of the people I know, I have been all into the Olympics since they kicked off on July 27th. On top of being a music and poetry fanatic, I love to watch sports. And the Olympics takes all of my interests and smashes them into one ridiculously huge event! Gymnastics, fencing, cycling, tennis, swimming, track and field...pretty much every sport I love to watch is on TV all day long. If only I could watch all day....

Even if you are not a fan of the Olympics, surely you have heard about Gabby Douglas. The 16 year old phenom from Virgina Beach came in relatively unknown as part of the Fab Five - the group of young gymnasts who represent the USA. To some people's surprise (not mine), she glided her way toward gymnastics highest honor and took home the gold medal in the All-Around competition. Many have noted that she is the first African American woman to do so. But, despite her race, she had the talent and personality to become America's next sweetheart.

But, even with the sweetest and most God-fearing disposition, coupled with a enigmatic smile and crazy skills, Gabby is already facing haters. Apparently, some ignorant people decided to display their idiocy to the world and make remarks about Gabby's hair and teeth. I have one word for them: REALLY??

First of all, she is an athlete in competition, not Miss Teen USA (no offense to those girls). Her job is to focus on her sport, not to make sure her hair is fried, dyed, and laid to the side. Let's be real people. Her hair is back in a ponytail with gel and clips, just like her Caucasian counterparts. But, because of its "texture", people want to make jokes? I am amazed how some people will do anything to bring anyone down in their moment of glory. And, her smile may not be perfect, but its real and beautiful.

Second of all, she could care less what any of us thinks. She just signed a multi-million dollar contract with Kellogg, which I am sure is the first of many. She is rich and successful and a positive role model to young women. What were YOU doing when you were 16? Certainly not winning a gold medal...


On to the music. Elle Varner (a fave of mine) is releasing her debut album TOMORROW! Perfectly Imperfect will hit stores tomorrow, so get a copy and wait for my album review so we can compare notes :)

Like (British) Rock Music? I'm pumped about the Darkness releasing a new album on the 20th entitled Hot Cakes. This is the follow up album to 2005's One Way Ticket to Hell...and Back

Also, on August 21st, Trey Songz will release his fifth album, appropriately titled Chapter V. Based on the singles released thus far, there seems to be something for everyone on this album.

And, what's the deal with this new Aaliyah song featuring Aubrey aka Drake. Word is Aubrey didn't get permission to do so...uh oh. I love Aaliyah dearly (as we all do) and have no problems with Drake, but I agree with most fans - Missy, Timberland, and Baby Girl's fam should be in the loop. They knew her, loved her, and had a keen understanding for how she wanted to be represented musically.

I think it is refreshing to hear Aaliyah's sweet voice soaring again. What I do realize is Drake is a fan, just like we are, and he loved Aaliyah even though he never knew her, just like many of us. But, as I comb through his lyrics, I hear a few strategically placed disses, perhaps toward a certain R&B singer. And, I am not here for someone using an Aaliyah track to fuel a feud.

It will be interesting to see if there is any validity to talks of an album or new releases....

Love Others,

-T. Amour

The Wannabe Struggle

Lately, I have not bought into my own advice.

I am an advocate of chasing dreams, maintaining hope, and persevering despite current circumstances, but I have been in a funk since my last blog post. I found myself wanting to have a career as a writer more than I wanted air. My heart ached every morning as I placed my feet on my bedroom floor to begin a day and a life that did not correlate with the dreams I had just a few years ago as a teenager.

I felt like a failure, and my excessively rough work days were doing a number to my self esteem.

Yesterday, I was reading some of my favorite poetry and I ran across the late, great Langston Hughes. One of the greats of the Harlem Renaissance movement, I have always admired and adored every written word associated with him. I read the following poem by him (all rights reserved to the owner):

A Dream Deferred

What happens to a dream deferred?
Does it dry up Like a raisin in the sun?
Or fester like a sore-- And then run?

Does it stink like rotten meat? Or crust and sugar over-- like a syrupy sweet?
Maybe it just sags like a heavy load.

Or does it explode?

I took a look at my dream: to be a writer for a living. Was my dream truly deferred, or was it just taking time to manifest. I realized the latter was true. No, I was not there yet, but because I blog, write poetry, and do some freelance writing, I had not let my dream die. It was simply beginning to grow.

But, the more I focus my energy on what I have not accomplished and my dissatisfaction career-wise, my dream would suffocate and die amidst anger, frustration, and self-doubt.

We need to give ourselves credit for the small victories in life. No, we may not have the big prize yet, but every step forward is commendable!

Love Poetry,

-T. Amour

5 Female Artists You Need on Your Ipod

Approximately once every 3-4 months, I experience a burst of feminista energy. Yes, I am bold and relatively fearless on a daily basis, but this energy transcends the typical confidence I have in myself as a woman. I march into my predominately male job with my head held a little higher and with my shoulders a bit more squared. I make awesome to-do lists and I accomplish almost everything on my list and then some. Basically, I rule in every way imaginable.

In the midst of my "I'm Every Woman" mindset, I have a go-to list of female artists I listen to for inspiration. These women are confident, charismatic, and cold-blooded when necessary. No, you make not see them plastered all over your television screen or dominating the airwaves. They unapologetically remain true to their craft and this is why I love them.

Here are five fearless female artists you need on your Ipod:

• Jhene Aiko
• Back during the B2K craze in the early 2000s, Jhene was the female background voice and pretty face closely associated with the group. Since their decline, Jhene has forged an impressive indie path of her own. 
• In 2011, she release a mixtape, Sailing Soul, an introspective, moody, and emotionally charged compilation of Aiko's inner thoughts. Her sugary voice is laced with defiance and confidence whether she is leaving an ex in the dust or seducing her new lover
• Her upcoming album, Souled Out, is due out sometime this year. Check out "2 Seconds" here *all rights reserved to creator of the video*:

•  Mya
• Mya has and will always be one of my favorite artists. EVER. A skilled tap dancer, Mya came on the music scene in 1998 with majah attitude in her first single "It's All About Me". Keeping it sexy, yet classy, Mya enjoyed a string of mainstream hits, including "Free" and "My Love is Like...Whoa".
• Since the release of  Moodring in 2003, Mya has taken charge of her career. She has enjoyed success in the Japanese music market, started her OWN record label, and is making music on her own terms. She connects and interacts with her fans closely on Twitter, often sharing inspirational passages and encouraging others to bring their dreams to fruition.
• Her most recent release, K.I.S.S., is available in the US and is amazing. Mya's signature "lady in the streets, but dominating in the sheets" is still in full effect. Also check out her mixtape "Beauty & The Streets Vol. 1
• This is one of my favorite songs off of K.I.S.S. *all rights reserved to creator of the video*:

• Elle Varner
• A newcomer to the scene, Elle Varner is a refreshing voice to hear amongst mainstream female artists. A pianist, guitarist, flutist, and KILLER vocalist, Elle released her debut single in Fall 2011, "Only Wanna Give it to You". Since then, her star power has been on the rise.
• Her debut album, Perfectly Imperfect, is slated for a 08/07/2012 release and will be featured on my blog. I think my favorite song will be "So Fly", a record about accepting yourself for who you are (after a bit of lamenting about your flaws). Hear it here *all rights reserved to owner*:

• Jill Scott
• Oh Jilly from Philly, how I love you so. You are the epitome of an amazing, intelligent, and creative woman. Every since her first single "Gettin' In the Way" in 2000, it didn't take long before we all figured out the question her debut album posed: Who is Jill Scott?
• An accomplished poet and gifted singer-songwriter, Jill Scott has experienced the heights of commercial success without compromising her musical and personal integrity. Her voice is rich and expressive, channeling R&B/soul divas from past lifetimes and injecting a raw emotion that grips your heart and refuses to let go.
• Although I love virtually anything that comes out of her mouth, my songs for this week are "Golden" and her latest single (from album The Light of the Sun) "Blessed". You can't be in a bad mood and listen to these songs! Here is "Blessed" *all rights reserved to the respective owners*

• Melanie Fiona
•  O Canada, thank you for letting us experience Melanie Fiona. Melanie is a true R&B diva who released her debut, The Bridge, in 2009. Her critically-acclaimed debut was largely fueled by the popular angst-driven single "It Kills Me" and the woman-in-charge single "Give it to Me Right" (my personal anthem). Melanie has been on fire since then!
• Her sophomore effort, The MF Life, celebrates the ups and downs of being a woman. Overall, it sounds like there are more ups than downs in her musical atmosphere.
• Here is my anthem :) *all rights reserved to the respective owners

Now that you know who my go-to girls are, I'm going to continue working on my list of goals I need to accomplish before 2012 comes to an end. Cheers to bring your dreams to fruition!


*Don't worry guys, I have something coming for you soon!*

Love Confidence,

-T. Amour

BET Awards, Frank Ocean, and other happenings

Hi Guys!

This past week has certainly been a busy one, both on the music front and personally (for me).

As you know, the BET Awards were last Sunday and I did get to watch it in its entirety. I will admit, I am not a big BET fan. There is not enough music on a so-called music channel and the music you do see lacks variety (in my opinion). But, after hearing about a Whitney Houston tribute, a Melanie Fiona performance, and a comeback performance from D'Angelo, I gave BET my undivided attention for about 3.5 hours.

Overall, the show was what I expected it to be: a little ratchetness, a little gospel, and a ton of wth moments! The moments I waited for did not disappoint. D'Angelo sounded EXACTLY like he sounded back in the 90s and I will be checking for him on tour!

Melanie Fiona looked and sounded amazing. She is not a household name quite yet, but I think her performance woke up a few people who have been sleeping on her :)

The best moment of all was, of course, the Whitney tribute. BET may get some things wrong, but they sure knew what they were doing when they put this tribute together. Monica and Brandy, both mentored by Whitney and mega stars in their own right, STOLE THE SHOW. Monica had me in tears and Brandy showed everyone just how powerhouse her smoky vocals truly are.

But, when Whitney's momma came out and sang (yes SANG), everyone was done. Soulja Boy, Beyonce, and majority of the people at the awards and at home were in tears. I think I saw Kanye and Jay-Z holding back tears... Peace and blessings to them all.

Now, about Frank Ocean. For those of you who don't know who he is, Frank is a rising R&B star who is affiliated with Odd Future, Tyler The Creator's label. Still lost?? It's okay, Google him!!

Anyway, his debut CD is slated for a 07/17 release, and he shocked quite a few people in the R&B/hip-hop circle by posting intimate details about his first love on Tumblr. Why are people shocked? Because his first love was another man.

Here is what I think. I think Frank Ocean is incredibly brave. Regardless on how I or anyone else feels about the LGBT community, we have to admit that he was very brave to be so honest about his sexuality, especially when he is apart of a community that largely frowns upon "being gay". And, as far as I am concerned, his sexuality is none of my business and has no affiliation with his musical genius. Will the music community stand behind Mr. Ocean? Only time will tell. But, I will tell you this...hate and judgement never wins. There ya go....

What else is new? Chris Brown has a new CD out and I will take a listen and have some commentary on it. I am working on a blog post about him, so look for it!

Prayers up for Rihanna (she lost her gran-gran Dolly last weekend) and Usher (he is going through a bitter divorce and now his former stepson is in critical condition after a 4th of July accident).

Trey Songz is heating up the music scene with two new releases from his upcoming album, Chapter V. "Dive In", a sexy signature Trey Songz record, and "Simply Amazing", another record where Trey steps outside of the box people LOVE to place him in, are both great records. I'm excited about Chapter V...this is going to be a CD full of hits!! Release date: 08/21/2012.

Love you,

-T. Amour

My Album Review: Usher - Looking for Myself

Usher Raymond IV, better known simply as Usher, has been one of the hottest and brightest stars in music since the mid 90s as a baby-faced teen. His musical career has experienced astounding highs (ie Confessions) and very few, if any, lows. Just when you think Usher is getting "too old" or you think his career is done, my man reinvents himself. He has cemented his own place in music history as one of the best selling artists of ALL time and he is not going anywhere anytime soon.

On June 8th, 2012, Usher released his latest effort, Looking for Myself. If Usher is truly looking for himself musically, then he has a lot of places on look on this album. An eclectic gumbo of hip-hop, pop, techno, and other musical elements, L4M has something for everyone. Usher manages to take his signature sounds and stretch them to appeal to a plethora of musical palates.

I have a confession to make (no pun intended). I had to listen to a few songs more than once to decide how I felt about them. I have a very open mind when it comes to music, but Usher represents a certain "figure" in my mind. I've always known and expected his capacity to change, but I wasn't quite ready for Looking for Myself. But, I found the more I listened, the more I liked who Usher is becoming. I can't speak for him on a personal front, but musically, he is not lost, but beginning a new and exciting journey.

Here is a track-by-track look at Usher's latest! Please note, these are my opinions and my review does not include the bonus tracks. You have to listen for yourself :)

*Like my brain, the songs are all out of order. Welcome to my world!*


"Looking for Myself" 
When I buy an album, if there is a title track, I head there first. My expectation is that the song will give me an overall feel for the album. In Usher's case, this is a true statement. Featuring great production by Rico Love (he's amazing), there is a 80s feel to this song. Usher's vocals blend seamlessly with the laid-back beat and he, along with Luke Steele, create an infectious tune. ***5 snaps***

"Numb"
Remember when I said I had to listen to some tracks several times to get a feel for them? For me, this was one of them. The first time I listened, I wasn't sure how I felt about this song. But, I think I like it...yeah, I like it. Not the best song on the album, but certainly not a bad song either. ***3 snaps***

"Lesson for the Lover" -
This one's a winner. For the fans who love "classic" Usher, add this one to your playlist when its time to...play ;). This tune is sexy, dark, and brooding...I want need a video for this song. Rico Love did his thang on the production front once again!! ***5 snaps***

"Sins of my Father"
This track sounds like something I have never heard before. How can I describe it? It is....a 60s sound meeting a Caribbean vibe. Usher plays a scorned, bitter son (and overall man) well on this one. A surprise like from me. ***4 snaps***

"Euphoria"
Some things are not for everyone. I am not sure how I feel about this song. This one may grow on me....so I don't want to rate it unfairly.

"Can't Stop Won't Stop"
I have mixed feeling about this one. One one hand, this my new guilty pleasure. There is a perfect blend of Usher's R&B roots with a techno pop twist. There is a bit of overproduction vocally, in my opinion. I have never been a huge fan of Usher with auto tune. He doesn't need it. Only people who have no vocal talent do.  Otherwise, this is a great song! ***4 snaps***

"Scream"
This. Is. Addictive. I need this joint like AC in the NC summer time. Love it! ***5 snaps***

"Climax" -
Amazing production by diplo. You can't lose with Usher and diplo on the same song. It is not physically possible. This one tears at my heartstrings and brings back memories of past love. Classic. ***5 snaps***

"I Care for You"
HOT HOT HAWT HAUTE...however you want to spell it. Usher snapped on this song (in a good way). There is a healthy helping of pop and techno with a dubstep beat backdrop. Who produced it? Danja!! Nothing more to be said. Easily one of my favorites on the article! ***5 snaps***

"Show me"
I love Usher Raymond, but not this song. But hey, no one likes everything...decide for yourself! ***2 snaps***

"Twisted"
Usher took a page out of Raphael Saadiq's book (which is one hell of a musical masterpiece). What an amazing sound delivered by the incomparable Pharell. Welcome back Pharell!! ***5 snaps***

"Dive"
Very 8701-ish ....love it. Rico Love does it again. He's my new fav producer. Not that he has to work hard when working with a vet like Ush. ***5 stars***

"What Happened to You"
Lyrically, this is my favorite song on the album. Usher gets all introspective and moody as he opens the windows and doors to his inner thoughts. Is he lamenting for an certain famous ex? IDK..I don't like to start rumors LOL ***4 stars***

"Lemme See"
Of course, every album has to have the song with urban appeal and mainstream radio play. This is this song. Not a Rick Ross fan, so he takes away some of the appeal of the song for me. But, Usher is a king when it comes to club music, and he does it again!! ***4 stars***

Overall, this is a very solid album from Usher. Did we really expect anything different?? Usher's voice has never sounded stronger, he's musically focused, and I smell a new tour coming up.

Congrats and continued success to Usher Raymond!

*This pic is from Usher's 2010 OMG tour...taken in Greensboro, NC by yours truly*

 Love Usher,

-T. Amour

The Return of Feel-Good Friday Music

You missed it. You know you did. And you missed me (unless this is your first time reading my blog).

I have missed myself the past couple of weeks. Today was actually a great day. I live in NC and realized that I don't want to go to hell if its any hotter than it is outside right now (about 100 degrees with heat index of 103). I had a chill day at work and now I am home relaxing with my AC on full blast. AAAHHHH....

Anywho, my playlist for this Friday is, as usual, a nice mix of genres and artists who I listened to today. But, before I share it with you, I want to let you know about some upcoming posts I have in the works for the next couple of weeks.

• My first album review- check out my blog this weekend as I review Usher's latest effort, Looking for Myself.
• Best of both worlds- an analysis of the Christian hip-hop genre and a look at some of my favorite "underground" artists
• Rashad Reign- an interview with an up and coming DMV artist.
• Drama Faces - The two sides of Chris Brown. This will be interesting.
• The most poetic hip-hop artists (my opinion) and why

As you can see, I am trying to take it to the next level, so tell your friends about me!

Here's my Friday playlist!!

• The Killers - "Somebody Told Me" 
• Foo Fighters - "Best of You"
• So, I always wondered how you fight foo. When I looked up what a "foo fighter"means, apparently it is a WWII term used to describe UFOs. So, the Foo Fighters are from outer space....
• Maroon 5 - "Moves Like Jagger"
• J. Cole - "Daddy's Little Girl"
• Trina Braxton "Party Or Go Home"
• This is my joint LOL
• Tamia - "I'm So Into You"
• She's coming out with a new CD soon. And yes I will buy it and love it. And you will hear about it. So deal.

 The list is super long, but these are just a few of my favorites today.

Have a great weekend and I'll catch up with you very soon!! Next blog post up: Usher Raymond

Love,

-T. Amour

My 10 Favorite Michael Jackson songs

As we all know, yesterday marked the three year anniversary of Michael Jackson's passing. Since I was under the weather (I was also sick when he died), I did not get to post this blog yesterday, but any day is an excellent day to honor the greatest entertainer of all time.

I don't need to give you any background info. You already know the story. Anyone who loves and appreciates music knows that Michael Jackson was a once-in-a-lifetime phenomenon. And I am grateful and honored to have lived during a portion of Michael Jackson's reign as the King of Pop.

I remember when MJ died. I got off work early on June 25th, 2009. I was sick, pregnant, and wrapped up under covers in my bedroom mindlessly flipping through TV channels when I stopped on a news channel.

The news was interrupted by the announcement of his passing and my heart sank to the floor. I began to cry. Not because I knew him personally, but I cried because I knew what the music world had just lost. I always knew Michael Jackson would be around in his 80s, still hitting a dance move and coaching younger artists. I never thought his life would end the tragic way it did.

Michael Jackson loved mankind and broke barriers for African-Americans. Without him, there would be no Chris Brown, Usher, Trey Songz, or any of the R&B acts today. He had a passion for music, entertainment, and knew how to command a stage and pour his emotions into a song. I can watch a YouTube video of any of his performances and FEEL his passion.

Sadly, Michael was lonely and unhappy for most of his life. I hope he is free and happy on the other side.

Here are my 10 favorite Michael Jackson songs (I could go on and on...but I won't. And I love Man in the Mirror too...but a list of 11 is a strange number LOL)

1) "Billie Jean"  *I know this is the woman in me, but he looked pretty good in this video. Don't judge me!*
2) "Remember the Time"
3) "Smooth Criminal"
4) "Human Nature" *gives me goosebumps*
5) "The Way you Make Me Feel"
6) "Rock With You"
7) "Wanna be Startin' Somethin"
8) "Beat It" *this song is perfect...just, perfect*
9) "Bad"
10) "Butterflies"

Michael, you will live on forever through your music. Future generations will study your artistry and try to match your charisma, style, and effortless ability to entertain the masses.

Love you Michael,

-T. Amour

No Keys, No Drive - Get in the Driver's Seat!

Planning my wedding was the hardest few months of my life. Between working a full-time schedule at my out-of-town job, running around after work to complete my never-ending "to-do-list", and dealing with constant complaints and attitudes from some family and friends, I was going INSANE.

However, hindsight is indeed 20/20. I believe every experience we encounter can be used to elevate us to a new mental and emotional realm. My wedding saga was no different! I learned who my true friends and family were and who indeed cared for me and had my best interest at heart.

But, I learned a larger lesson. DON'T LET PEOPLE DRIVE YOU CRAZY. Think about that statement for a minute. What does a vehicle need in order to be driven? Keys and gas!! It's the same way with us. Don't let people around you fill your emotional tank up with bad gas. If you do, you are asking for a breakdown!

And, don't give people keys to your emotions! They can't drive you to "CrazyTown" if you don't allow them to have the keys and get behind the drivers seat. Drive your own emotional vehicle and take charge of your mental and emotional health.

I will admit, I had several moments when I let others get in the driver's seat. But, because I have a problem with relinquishing control for long periods of time, I made the decision that it was MY DAY, MY JOURNEY, and MY TIME. If someone wanted to operate in bitterness, jealousy, and pessimism, they could drive their own "vehicle" there all by themselves!!

ANNNNNDDDD on that note....let's groove to some Bobby Brown. It's My Prerogative ;)

*I own no rights to this video. All right reserved to the respective owners*

Love Sanity,

-T. Amour